I realize that if you are in a relationship that is a bit unconventional it is going to be difficult to talk about it with other people and to get the support system that you need to keep going. Sometimes you can feel like you are the only couple out there that is facing your current dilemma I am currently in a spot like this and I am feeling lonely. My husband is busy with his dating and chatting to friends about his future plans. I know that I should be patient, but every church that we have tried will teach you that it was OK for the profits to have more than one wife just read genesis if the bible is your answer.But on the other had they condemn plural marriage saying is is a sin I just don’t understand it. But it is still so unaccepted here in the US it is hard to find help and support groups that you can go to and hang out with. You know how singles have parties and clubs, people with children. It would just be great to go to a BBQ or something and not have to lie about who the members of your family were or only half of them get to go because of the family secret. It is not clear to me why we can bring grandpa (with a drinking problem) to an open bar wedding but not bring your whole family if you are in a plural marriage.
OK so I got off topic slightly what I was really going for was the fact that I am lonely and there is really no place or person that I can talk to that would understand or that I would even be able to click with because we have the marriage in common. I would love to have a pen pal from one of the communities that supports this type of marriage just so we can tell each other our feelings and bond a bit. I hate keeping secrets or having to lie so we have decided to tell out families and then it will be up to them to either withdraw or be supportive. But I want to be able to connect with a person going through some of the same things. If you have any ideas or you know of someone please have them e-mail me or comment my page. OK it is 3am here and I have to be at work at 6 so I should get going. Have a happy holiday season if I don’t chat with you till then.
